Wednesday, August 17, 2011

This one may seem a bit weird but i have to get it outta my system?

No, your sister hasnt turned into a tart. This is a cultural issue, so maybe your sister is a little more independent than you are giving her credit for. Maybe her marriage is unhappy (it was arranged, yeah?). Maybe she wants more for herself....maybe she met a guy who she trully loves, but because of tradition and culture she cannot bring herself to leave her husband.....at least not openly. There was a case just recently where a man killed his wife with the aid of family. She was planning to leave him.....it was cultural issue.....an arranged marriage where the man is head of the household and it is unheard of that a woman leaves her husband. Maybe your sister is frightened of the same outcome if she goes against tradition. If there is no open communication within the whole family, then of course if she finds love she is not going to tell anyone, so she has to do it secretly. Maybe you could change tradition and talk to your sister.....maybe you could love her enough to see her as a person and support her. Maybe that's what she needs right now. Be a good brother and give her some support.

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